Sunday, 24 June 2018

The changes/progress my country has experienced from 9.5.2018 untill today

  The changes that my country has experienced from 9.5.2018 until today is that the prices of most things have dropped since we do not need to pay for GST anymore. The people of this country also have more hopes towards the new Prime Minister than the former one.

  Besides that, I don't really see much changes or progress yet. I don't know about the adults but our education system hasn't really changed ever since that day. I think the government still needs some time to fix our country's problems that the former prime minister had caused.

  As a student, I haven't seen much changes yet since I am not really interested in my country's politics but the obvious changes are the adults around me have stopped blaming the government for now. Adults also praise the new prime minister a lot for the time being.

  In conclusion, I don't see any changes yet but I hope that the new prime minister can really lead this country and make this country a better place for all of us to live in.






Seriously, nothing has really changed for me.....

  

Sunday, 17 June 2018

(free) What is BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder)

  BPD or Borderline Personality Disorder is a personality disorder marked by unstable and inconsistent moods, behavior, and functioning. This often results in unstable relationships, impulsivity, anger, depression, and anxiety. 

  BPD is a personality disorder where you feel as though you lack control, creating frustration. It is thought to be triggered by a traumatic event in early childhood, though there is no direct correlation. Researchers believe that those with BPD, due to a possible traumatic event, experience different structural changes in the part of the brain that controls emotions and impulses.

   However, it should be noted that this shows up in people who do not have BPD, Which makes BPD even more mysterious and unknown. BPD can be hard to detect as it so often overlaps with other mental illnesses. One might talk about depression, but not talk about or be aware of their other symptoms. This results in one being wrongfully diagnosed with depression and not BPD.

  The list of symptoms of BPD includes frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment; a pattern of intense and unstable relationships with family, friends and loved ones, often swinging from extreme closeness and love or idealization to extreme dislike or anger; distorted and unstable self-image or sense of self; impulse and often dangeous behaviors such as spending sprees, unsafe sex, substance abuse, reckless driving and binge eating; reoccuring suicidal beheaviors or threats or self harming behavior; intense and highly changeable moods; chronic feelings of emptiness; innappropriate and intense anger or  problems controlling anger; stress-related paranoid thoughts; severe dissociative symptoms such as feeling cut off from oneself, observing oneself from outside the body or losing touch with reality.

   Interpersonal relationships are quite difficult, but DBT or Dialectical Behavior Therapy can offer skills to not only cope with but successfully live with BPD. Since its creation, DBT has been used to help not only BPD, but other mental illnesses as well. Borderline Personality Disorder is a personality disorder not much spoken about, as many are afraid of it, but it's important to remember that those with BPD are still people, and they deserve to be heard and loved.

Monday, 11 June 2018

Ladies should not accept jobs that take them away from home excessively. How far do you agree?

  I agree with the statement to a certain extent. Ladies should not accept jobs that take them away from home excessively because it is important for them to take care of their homes as a family is an important part of one's life.

  If ladies take jobs that take them away from home excessively, it would harm the family as the family members will not be able to bond with them more often and this will cause family members to be more distant than ever.

  Besides, ladies are also a very important part of a child's childhood and if a lady, in this case, a mother, accepted a job that takes her away from home overly, the child will miss out a lot of things that he or she can learn from the mother. Not to mention that the child will feel remote towards the mother. This may cause a lot of regrets in both the mother's and child's life later in the future.

  Of course, jobs opportunities are good things to receive and if the job that is given is reasonable, it is totally fine to accept it but it is also important to find a balance between jobs and our home. Ladies should not accept jobs that take them away from home excessively but they should accept jobs that offer a better future and a stable life for them. If a job takes someone away from home excessively, it is probably a better choice to not accept it because a job like that is bound to be more stressful and is not always rewarding.

  In conclusion, it is up to the ladies to choose whether it is a good choice to accept jobs that take them away from home excessively or not. If the job is what one enjoys, it is acceptable to take the job, but if it needs one to sacrifice a lot of their time that they spend at home with family and housework, it is not recommended to accept this kind of jobs.